
First off, I'm not sure I believe the premise, but let's say its true. The more important question to ALWAYS ask is why?
Has the modern feminist movement (since the late 1960's - not to be confused with the classic feminist movement of the 1920's) ever required anything of men that makes them better human beings?
Have unlimited sex, pay for an abortion, let your woman support you, don't open her doors, let her make the influential decisions for the family... honestly woman that are married to these kinds of men would SURELY regret what they signed up for.
However... in reviewing the classic "Meet Joe Black" over the weekend, I found it interesting that the character of Susan says to death, a most personal admission towards the end of the film. (Whereas earlier she had chided Brad Pitt's human character for desiring to 'take care of his woman' - the Susan character tells him, "good luck finding a woman like that.") She finally admits to "Death" who she believes is still the original man she met in the coffee shop - that she "does want" a man who will take care of her.
Sure the woman of today's modernity moan and gripe about their choice of marriage partners - but it has primarily to do with the fact that their expectations were pretty darn low going into it.
If they were to survey healthy marriages, with more traditional leaning values - I bet the reaction would be significantly different.